Do Sex Toys Play With Your Head?

BE ADVISED. THE FOLLOWING ARTICLE IS ONE OF MY MOST GRAPHIC. IF IT STARTS TO SOUND LIKE A FANTASY TO MASTURBATE TO, CLICK HERE.

Check out our great new Adult Toy Store! Try a new adventure! Put some spice into your relationship! We’ve got costumes to (barely) cover up your honey’s naughty parts. We’ve got whips, gags, restraints, and complete outfits to fully restrain and pretend to torture the one you love. We’ve stocked silicon phallic shapes of all sizes and colors for for effective and convenient penetration and stimulation all around. And all product packaging bears the image of an average, ordinary user turned into a being of sexual perfection through the use of the product inside. Don’t you dare try to play pretend in the bedroom without having a look here.

Oh, and while you’re in the store, we’ve got fantastically tasteless greeting cards and vulgar gag gifts. Hey, nothing expresses greatest wishes for a bride’s forthcoming marriage like a greeting card sporting a naked sailor of offensive proportions making a naughty offer.

I may be wrong, but I don’t think sex between a healthy, loving husband and and a healthy, loving wife can be improved upon with accessories.

Okay, enough of the silliness. Here is the story of how my opinion of adult toy stores and sex toys went from titillation to disgust. It wasn’t long after my wife and I got together that we first checked out an adult toy store. I had been wary of such a thing previously, thinking it was too immoral for the facade I maintained, but with the approval of my beloved, I felt free to indulge. And the lure was huge.

Beat Porn by Killing its Value

If spend a lot of time looking at pornography, or looking for it, or thinking about it, or masturbating with thoughts of it, it means you value you it. The idea of having visual access to other people’s most sacred and intimate (and probably wrong) use of their physical bodies has been deemed by you to be worthy your thought, time, energy, and possibly your money. If you are aware of all that’s going on with viewing pornography and masturbating to it and sexual fantasy, you know you are giving far more than time and money to it. You may be risking your relationships and your self-esteem. In certain cases, you could be risking your job or your freedom. Okay, let’s not go there just now. The assumption here is that you wish you didn’t crave pornography and masturbation as much as you do right now. The given is that these activities, though bothersome, have value.

Don’t Masturbate Now

Here’s my flash card of sanity, a reminder to pull out should I ever think that a brief slip back to the bad habit isn’t such a big deal.